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Some people hold to 'the man is the boss'. What does the Bible say? I've heard it from some men that "the Bible says the woman is to submit to the man". Well, yes, it does say that, BUT in the verse immediately before that one, it also says that they are to submit to each other and in 1Corinthians 7:3-5,34 it says they each have power over one another, here speaking of sex.
    God is no prude! He designed sex to feel good and be most pleasurable long after child bearing has past – and into the age where you 'finally get it all together', the age where you're body is falling apart and you can't recall being absent minded, the age where you spend a lot of time thinking about the hereafter – the age where you go somewhere for something, and wonder what it is you're here after! ha ha! All reports are now in – life is officially unfair! But it's interesting to see how those who are prudes, read sex into so many conversations, like this lady!--ha ha!

The bedroom cannot be defiled (Hebrews 13:4) if both agree to and enjoy adventurous sexual variation. God gave you an imagination. Use it. Learn how to be sexy – poses, clothes, attitude, setting, variations, etc. Learn to turn each other on. Be artful and creative! Pray for the ability to be increasingly passionate. 
    If you truly love another, you'll do all you can to provide an interesting and exciting sexual experience, knowing this contributes to ongoing and deeper intimacy.
    Sex for many involves manipulation for selfish amusement and recreation. How different and meaningful sex can be when one's attitude changes; changes to accept and appreciate the pleasure another is giving from his/her sincere heart just for his/her dear partner.
    Every woman wants a man to be like a rhinoceros taking a month for foreplay! Lots of attention, hugs and kisses during the day make for an interesting time later. 
    On enjoying it and using your imagination--Proverbs 5:19; Song of Solomon 1:5,6,13; 2:14-17; 3:4; 5:4-6, 9-16; 6:2; 7th chapter; 8:1,10. In a relationship the man has a responsibility to keep it alive and fun through providing for necessary things to keep the relationship interesting. That which enriches a woman here (new thoughts, new experiences, etc.), enhances the relationship. 
    A woman has a responsibility to keep the man interested sexually and otherwise -Ephesians 5:28,29; Ephesians 5:21-33; 1Corinthians 11:8-12; 1Corinthians 11:3 "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God."
    God designed our natures to work in harmony with the invisible things He has set, the hidden underlying 'code' (for lack of a better word) with which we align ourselves through trust in and acceptance of Him and His words to us.
    Trust is having confidence in another regarding a matter of importance to you. Without His Holy Spirit helping us, we rely on ourselves, until life becomes so frustrating that we become discouraged
    We always seem to seek for ways to elevate the self, and for ways to keep life interesting and seemingly worthwhile.
    Apart from Him, we really just seem to grope through life, trying this way, and then that way, wasting time away from His only right way, which we can't even discover without Him calling us -Ecclesiastes 3:11 "He hath made every thing beautiful in his time. Also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end." 
    He created us. He knows that what He's laid down will enable happiness, if we would just get in line with it. If we only trusted God's wisdom and His word! 
    But our natures are pride filled and naturally resistive, programmed to keep us from God, until He's ready. Without the help of His Holy Spirit, we could never really find the true God. So He gave the Holy Spirit as a free gift, so that we could use it by allowing it to guide us allowing its power to subdue our self reliant ways so we are able to trust His ways.
    We are all so darn impatient! One of the hardest things to do seems to be to wait on God -Psalms 27:14 "Wait on the LORD. Be of good courage and he shall strengthen thine heart. Wait, I say, on the LORD."
    You who may read this, have some wisdom and step back and observe the lives of others. Notice the personalities of others, and ask yourself, What will their lives be like in a few years if they continue on as they are?
    Keep an adept eye on the futures of those you may so note, and T H I N K! Learn from the mistakes of others, so you can avoid those errors in your own living.-...continues


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