Some people hold to 'the man
is the boss'. What does the Bible say?
I've heard it from some men that "the Bible says the woman is to submit
to the man". Well, yes, it does
say that, BUT in the verse immediately before that one, it also says that
they are to submit to each other and in 1Corinthians
7:3-5,34 it says they each have power over one another, here
speaking of sex.
no prude! He
designed sex to feel good and be most pleasurable long after child bearing
has past – and into the age where you 'finally get it all together', the
age where you're body is falling apart and you can't recall being absent
minded, the age where you spend a lot of time thinking about the hereafter
– the age where you go somewhere for something, and wonder what it is you're
here after! ha ha! All reports are now in – life is officially unfair!
But it's interesting to see how those who are prudes, read sex into so
many conversations, like this lady!-–-ha
The bedroom cannot be defiled (Hebrews
13:4) if both agree to and enjoy adventurous sexual variation. God
gave you an imagination. Use it. Learn how to be sexy – poses, clothes,
attitude, setting, variations, etc. Learn to turn each other on. Be artful
and creative! Pray for the ability to be increasingly passionate.
If you truly love another, you'll
do all you can to provide an interesting and exciting sexual experience,
knowing this contributes to ongoing and deeper intimacy.
Sex for many involves manipulation
for selfish amusement and recreation. How different and meaningful sex
can be when one's attitude changes; changes to accept and appreciate the
pleasure another is giving from his/her sincere heart just for his/her
Every woman wants a man to be like
a rhinoceros taking a month for foreplay!
Lots of attention, hugs and kisses during the day make for an interesting
On enjoying it and using your imagination--Proverbs
5:19; Song of Solomon
chapter; 8:1,10. In
a relationship the man has a responsibility to keep it alive and fun through
providing for necessary things to keep the relationship interesting. That
which enriches a woman here (new thoughts, new experiences, etc.), enhances
A woman has a responsibility to keep
the man interested sexually and otherwise -Ephesians
5:28,29; Ephesians 5:21-33;
11:3 "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ;
and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God."
God designed our natures to work in
harmony with the invisible things He has set, the hidden underlying 'code'
(for lack of a better word) with which we align ourselves through trust
in and acceptance of Him and His words to us.
Trust is having confidence in another
regarding a matter of importance to you. Without His Holy Spirit helping
us, we rely on ourselves, until life becomes so frustrating that we become
seem to seek for ways to elevate the self, and for ways to keep life interesting
and seemingly worthwhile.
Apart from Him, we really just seem
to grope through life, trying this
way, and then that way, wasting time away from His only right way, which
we can't even discover without
Him calling us -Ecclesiastes
3:11 "He hath made every thing beautiful in his time. Also he hath
set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that
God maketh from the beginning to the end."
He created us. He knows that what
He's laid down will enable happiness, if we would just get in line with
it. If we only trusted God's wisdom and His word!
But our natures are pride
filled and naturally resistive, programmed to keep us from God, until
He's ready. Without the help of His
Holy Spirit, we could never really find the true God. So He gave the
Holy Spirit as a free gift, so that we could use it by allowing it to guide
us allowing its power to subdue our self reliant ways so we are able to
trust His ways.
We are all so darn impatient! One
of the hardest things to do seems to be to wait on God -Psalms
27:14 "Wait on the LORD. Be of good courage and he shall strengthen
thine heart. Wait, I say, on the LORD."
You who may read this,
have some wisdom and step back and observe the lives of others. Notice
the personalities of others, and ask yourself, What will their lives be
like in a few years if they continue on as they are?
Keep an adept
eye on the futures of those you may so note, and T
H I N K! Learn from the mistakes of others, so you can avoid those
errors in your own living.-...continues
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