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"Healthy love can't be demanded nor taken for granted. It can only be a continuing give and take exchange and dialogue between two independent persons who share many values and responsibilities, yet still feel a childlike magic with each other."
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Categories are in no particular order of importance whatsoever. 
    When to rate? Whenever. Do it a few times. At the beginning, a month later and so on. The score should go up each time. 
    Get a piece of paper and for each item rate your thoughts from 1-10 with 10 being the absolute epitome of your expectations. When completed, add up your score. From a possible of 320, anything less than around 224 – find another!
    Add 1 point for each year if you already are together.

1- Sexually attractive to you.(lovemaking excitement potential; passionate)? 4 more reasons for not being a 'porker': The head is clearer, the health is better, the heart is lighter and the purse is heavier! Drop the philosophy you get enough exercise just pushing your luck! To find out where you stand...

Sexual attraction is the first thing that brings males and females toward a relationship. A question to ask yourself about your prospective is can his/her kiss keep the winter warm for you? If you don't think it can, don't think much about this person for a mate.
    Do you think she/he is able to.keep.you happy?.
    What about older combining with younger?
    The first thing toward a relationship after attraction is noticed, is courting, beginning with conversation.
    Yeah, but, what if a guy has 8 girls, or a girl has 8 guys that they are attracted to that all seem to fit well? Nice to have such a choice, eh? Go for the one you are most attracted to, and this should include qualities of character important to you that he or she possesses more of than the others. Does he or she have that light, that life in them -John 8:12 "Then spake Jesus again unto them saying, I am the light of the world; he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness but shall have the light of life." Does she or he make the sun shine in your heart? Do they reflect the higher standards of God's character to you? Do they even know anything about higher standards? Do they know any high standards at all? Do they follow high standards?
    If there is more than one for you that seems to fit, you have to weed them out by getting to know them until some shine not quite as bright as at first. Still not sure? Then, you're not ready, or, you're being 'called' either to somewhere or someone else!
    But what if once I decide on someone and become committed, then later some other person comes along that I'm strongly attracted too?
    You have to at some time make a decision and stick with it, or you'll be forever in a mode where nothing ever grows into the depth necessary to fully carry a relationship through life. 
    First, decide if you really do want to spend the rest of your life with this person, the way he or she is now. If not, say goodbye.
    Decide then, that once you have set your heart on someone, that this person will be your one and only, providing of course, that the one you have decided upon generally and overall, keeps growing in positives with you. In making this decision, consider: Do you live in his heart, and vice-versa? If not, better wait till you begin to at least function as a unit. All relationships are to help each other and that direction should generally be consistent, so that each improves as a person.
    If you're in it just for sex, or for other selfish reasons, get out and get mature, otherwise you'll waste too much time on patching, patching, patching as things continually tend to be falling apart.
    The equation is: the degree of selfishness is equal to the length of time the relationship can continue.

2- Good looking to you?-(pleasant looks; but remember, Jesus was no beauty {Isaiah 53:2-4}, nor was the great apostle Paul, and Jesus was perhaps even chubby yet would have been the perfect mate).
    Could not a man or woman today who has Christ active-(see #15) in them also be a perfect mate?
   Is the person under consideration attractive to you? Ask yourself "do I really want to live with this person for the rest of my life the way they presently may be, and can I...warts, faults and all, or do they have to change a lot first?"
    If the answer is no and/or if they have to change first, say goodbye, for their sake and yours.
    Do you think he or she feels you in their heart, sees you in their heart, wants you to be in their heart? If you answer no, say goodbye!
    Ask yourself if this guy or girl has enough love to last a lifetime.

People who say one can't fool nature never watched a beauty shop operator work!

They all look cute by the dashboard light, but it's what's there the morning after the night!

3- Affectionate-(likes to be close and touch you, or resistive, self sabotage type; thinks life is a succession of things to be enjoyed, endured, licked or commanded)?
    One can't be affectionate from the heart unless he or she knows that they are loved. Some believe that they are so worthless, that no one could possibly love them. 
    Expressing heartfelt affection is important. Be sure the someone you find wants to be the fire in your night! Be sure he or she is hot for you!

4- Fun?-Is he/she fun (shows you a good time, enjoyable to be around, upbeat and encouraging; do you feel good with him/her; humorous; do I want this person just to fill a void in my life or because I'm anxious to share what I am; is he or she nice?
    The nicest people are those who minimize one's faults and maximize one's virtues)? 

5- Likes to be (and do things) with you? Does he or she accept you? If they do, they'll be happy around you and will build upon acceptance by being and doing positive things with you and to you and for you. In this way rapport is built.
   Or perhaps the person you're considering is really not yet ready for a relationship; still 'finding the self', or a competitor with you (doesn't understand the sexual differences). 
    To be loved as much as possible from another's heart (what we all want, right?), he or she must be interested enough to want to understand you, and want to be like this...
    To this end, one seeking a relationship must both be capable of being understood--be open and honest, able to be understood, and one must seek to understand the other. Predictable behavior is always based on love. Erratic behavior is based on selfishness.
    If someone is not trying to understand and discover who is this person that is you, what then do they want from you? Certainly not a lasting relationship!)?

6- Proud of this person? Proud to be with him or her, proud of their looks and demeanor? Sincerely makes you feel special; giving, generous; exhibits composure; a gentleman or lady or, embarrassed somewhat to be seen with them? Want them to change before acceptable to you? Find another.-...continue to number 7


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