M a t i n g--C o n s i d e r a t i o n s ,  P a g e  3
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The key to loyalty and the key to deepening love.
    Want your mate to be loyal to you? Have fun with him or her! We are most loyal to and prefer to be around those with whom we have fun, fun, fun! There is a difference between trying to please another (work) and wanting to (fun) provide pleasure and/or be of help to another. One is of duty and the other of the heart. 
    The goal in any relationship is to make it more meaningful, to make it more deeply loving. If one seeks for love, one looks to another for fulfilment. If one seeks for meaning, one seeks to fulfil others, because he will then see meaning beyond himself, and even in his trials and sufferings.
    If you're seeking to be a fulfilment to another, seeking for meaning in the potential relationship and they "won't let you into their world", you know for sure that their world is not for you. 

Many men seek for and have women that have an attitude of trying to 'keep right' with them, rather than loving them from the heart. This is hardly a relationship! 
    Seek a person with an attitude like God, where you don't have to work at gaining and keeping his favor, because you already have it! If you don't feel excited and intense about the relationship; excited about having fun together, then why are you in it? 
    Work not at love in the relationship, but at having fun together. Love is a result of interaction that builds each other, that makes each other a better person. That's what builds meaningful love. That's how the highest form of love develops.
    We are most loyal to those we have fun with. The same applies to God. You can't have fun if you believe that you are in sin, believing that God is disapproving of you, especially since this makes you a child of the devil; you will then be -Hebrews 10:27. This attitude will devour you. You've been made righteous by faith (Romans 5:1), faith in Jesus Christ alone; that is, you believe that He is in you. That's all. The rest will come in time as you continue believing this. Believing leads one to do things and to become better.
    Religion often makes one judge himself imperfect, stopping one from the need to be loved because one knows he/she is a sinner and deserving of punishment instead of blessings. So one hides his heart from others and becomes a phony like the Pharisees. One then feels unworthy of anyone's love, even God's. 
    Through acceptance of each, a oneness is created. Become married to Christ by accepting Him (believing) that He is with you, in you, a part of you -Romans 10:9,10. And He does accept you.-...continues to Questions


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