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We have all seen photogenically perfect faces and bodies become ugly the more one is around them. Conversely, a homely person can become stunning in attractiveness as they allow themselves.(by a decision to become that way).to be motivated by beautiful thoughts, thereby increasing the love that may be in them -Jude 1:2; 1John 4:12,16,17.
    Attraction is generated by a positive response to what we experience.
    Love connects us to others' spirits. Can any of us ever really turn away in our hearts from real true love?
    This is where the real attractiveness of a person resides and is cultivated, and it will be recognized by that special other – more. Over months and years the outer features begin to mimic the beauty inside. Because love begets more love, a great attractiveness, to the right person, begins to accompany them. A 'physical'.(all is really spirit or energy).thing you can do now to improve looks, attitude, brain power, etc. 
    To keep yourself in this depth of spiritual love, keep focused upon the kindness.(mercy).that God has toward you -Jude 1:21. You bring forth character magnetism when you thoroughly believe what-God really does now think about you.
    Some women seem to compensate for what they feel they may be lacking and become gaudy in appearance, showing instead, lack of taste -1Timothy 2:9. Excessive jewelry and makeup, loud clothes and always wanting to be out and about and 'with it' behavior are unappealing to one of quality -Proverbs 7:11
    The reason women are more concerned about attractiveness than intelligence is because they know the average man can see better than he can think! And ladies, don't go for 'sham' poo. Get real poo!, and look for a man with the kindness and sincerity of a dog, the virility of a horse, and the intelligence of a dolphin.
    And don't yourself use 'sham' poo by acting in a manner that you think a man will be sure to respond to. Instead be your real self, and if he doesn't respond, you now have to decide to either let it go and continue being what you feel are the ways that are most comfortable to you, or if you feel uncomfortable over the results your getting, decide to become a better person and begin immediately acting out of your image of how you now have decided to become. Soon, this new way will be inherent to you, the new you; and keep open minded about constant change over the things you feel are not right about you. Above all, don't allow the negatives of yourself to become entrenced into your character through stubborness and bitterness.

A lesson in the story of Jacob that can keep familiarity from eroding a relationship. 

Men and women still have difficulty getting along. Understanding is needed.
    You can't love another until you know how much you are loved by him and vice versa. Thus, the importance of openness and honesty. Apart from that, it's often mostly infatuation.(attractiveness to an image one has in their minds of how they think the other person is or can become),.unless-there appears such an immediate strong bond.(very rare and very special).and all that forth comes in the next weeks and months corroborates the initial feelings with-no downside, not the slightest doubt. But that is extremely rare. It is well worth waiting for. 
    When God gives you the right one, you'll know it! The question is: Do you have perhaps the months and even years of patience to wait for that, while you continue to improve along the way? Is it better to wait 20 years for the right one", or to jump quickly and live maybe 10, 20 or more years in hell, in and out of relationships, some perhaps much worse than the last? 
   To be real meaningful love, the other has to accept your love, love in return and find within you a meaning so deep, so never ending, so special, that you both know it is not only 'beyond you both', but put together by God. But most can't wait and, being hasty, look elsewhere, settling for less. Mostly, love at first sight deserves a second look, and a third and a forth..use the rate-a-mate.(or, a potential one).often! It'll give you some guidance along the way.

Interesting answers to questions men have about women are here. And interesting answers for women are here. Check them out! More helpful links at the end of this article. 

Guys: Many women would rather mend your ways than your socks! Many women choose men as they would an old house – with an eye toward remodeling! Most women only want one thing from a man – everything! Don't take a woman to church. They learn how to preach sermons to you at home and usually end it with taking up a collection! 
    Seek for a women with some of these finer qualities -Proverbs 6:25. And for a woman with a brain towards being helpful and thoughtful of another's need -Genesis 24:14. And trust that God will guide you to one who trusts in divine providence as Rebekah -Genesis 24:4-6,8. A woman who is capable of making a house a home will never be left alone! A man's club is a place for those who have no home and a refuge for many that do!

A ten year study in the U.S.A. revealed that first, most women want control. In fact the article, in a respected large newspaper had said "Inside every woman is a screaming #^#*#, just waiting to gain control." Second was money. Then came all the rest that women want; handsome guy, cool, a little rough, kind, patient, fun loving, lighthearted, healthy, show me the world and "worship me I'm woman" types, etc., etc. 

Some girls think there's one thing better than marrying a millionaire – divorcing him.(Proverbs 6:24,26).or, worse yet, being a quick self made widow. Hey! It takes real faith to eat some of the things those with attitudes prepare. Remember guys; it's less expensive to borrow money than be forced to share it in a divorce! Ha! And guys: Some girls think it's easy to get money. They treat you as if you were the government and they a foreign country. A study of economics has shown that the best time to buy something is when a girl has control over a guy's money. Women may like their friends, but competition risks loss of profit! Ask her if she has ever opted freely out of her wallet to help another.(none family). Same applies to guys. 
    Women become committed to a man for many reasons other than love. And that's fine, as love can grow. But you should be aware of the reasons. It'll take time, circumstances and insight for you to really get to know the person.....continues


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