all seen photogenically perfect faces
and bodies become ugly the more one is around them. Conversely, a homely
person can become stunning in attractiveness as they allow themselves.(by
a decision to become that way).to
be motivated by beautiful thoughts, thereby increasing the love that may
be in them -Jude 1:2;
generated by a positive response to what we experience.
us to others'
spirits. Can any of us ever really turn away in our hearts from real true
This is where
the real attractiveness of a person resides and is cultivated, and it will
be recognized by that special other – more.
Over months and years the outer features
begin to mimic the beauty inside. Because love
begets more love, a great attractiveness, to the right person, begins
to accompany them. A 'physical'.(all
is really spirit or energy).thing
you can do now to improve looks, attitude,
brain power, etc.
To keep yourself
in this depth of spiritual love, keep focused upon the kindness.(mercy).that
God has toward you -Jude 1:21. You bring
forth character magnetism when you thoroughly believe
really does now think about you.
Some women seem
to compensate for what they feel they may be lacking and become gaudy in
appearance, showing instead, lack of taste -1Timothy
2:9. Excessive jewelry and makeup, loud clothes and always wanting
to be out and about and 'with it' behavior are unappealing to one of quality
The reason women
are more concerned about attractiveness than intelligence is because they
know the average man can see better than he can think! And ladies, don't
go for 'sham' poo. Get real poo!, and look for a man with the kindness
and sincerity of a dog, the virility of a horse, and the intelligence of
And don't yourself
use 'sham' poo by acting in a manner that you think a man will be
sure to respond to. Instead be your real self, and if he doesn't respond,
you now have to decide to either let it go and continue being what you
feel are the ways that are most comfortable to you, or if you feel uncomfortable
over the results your getting, decide to become a better person and begin
immediately acting out of your image of how you now have decided to become.
Soon, this new way will be inherent
to you, the new you; and keep open minded about constant change over the
things you feel are not right about you. Above all, don't allow the negatives
of yourself to become entrenced into your character through stubborness
in the story of Jacob that can keep familiarity from eroding a relationship.
Men and women still have difficulty
getting along. Understanding is needed.
love another until you know how much you are loved by him and vice versa.
Thus, the importance of openness and honesty. Apart from that, it's often
to an image one has in their minds of how they think the other person
is or can become),.unless-there
appears such an immediate strong bond.(very
rare and very special).and
all that forth comes in the next weeks and months corroborates the initial
downside, not the slightest doubt. But that is extremely rare. It is
well worth waiting for.
When God gives
you the right one, you'll know it!
The question is: Do you have perhaps the months and even years of patience
to wait for that, while you continue to improve along the way? Is it better
to wait 20 years for the right one", or to jump quickly and live maybe
10, 20 or more years in hell, in and out of relationships, some perhaps
much worse than the last?
To be real meaningful
love, the other has to accept your love, love in return and find within
you a meaning so deep, so never ending, so special, that you both know
it is not only 'beyond you both', but put together by God. But most can't
wait and, being hasty, look elsewhere, settling for less. Mostly, love
at first sight deserves a second look, and a third and a forth.–.use
a potential one).often!
It'll give you some guidance along the way.
Interesting answers to questions
men have about women are here.
And interesting answers for women are here.
Check them out! More helpful links at the end of this article.
Guys: Many women would rather mend
your ways than your socks! Many women choose men as they would an old house
– with an eye toward remodeling! Most women only want one thing from a
man – everything! Don't take a woman to church. They learn how to preach
sermons to you at home and usually end it with taking up a collection!
Seek for a women
with some of these finer qualities
-Proverbs 6:25. And
for a woman with a brain towards being helpful and thoughtful of another's
need -Genesis 24:14. And trust
that God will guide you to one who trusts in divine providence as Rebekah
-Genesis 24:4-6,8. A woman who
is capable of making a house a home will never be left alone! A man's club
is a place for those who have no home and a refuge for many that do!
A ten year study in the U.S.A.
revealed that first, most women want control. In fact the article,
in a respected large newspaper had said "Inside every woman is a screaming
#^#*#, just waiting to gain control." Second was money. Then came
all the rest that women want; handsome guy, cool, a little rough, kind,
patient, fun loving, lighthearted, healthy, show me the world and "worship
me I'm woman" types, etc., etc.
Some girls think there's one thing
better than marrying a millionaire – divorcing him.(Proverbs
worse yet, being a quick self made widow. Hey! It takes real faith to eat
some of the things those with attitudes prepare. Remember guys; it's less
expensive to borrow money than be forced to share it in a divorce! Ha!
And guys: Some girls think it's easy to get money. They treat you as if
you were the government and they a foreign country. A study of economics
has shown that the best time to buy something is when a girl has control
over a guy's money. Women may like their friends, but competition risks
loss of profit! Ask her if she has ever opted freely out of her wallet
to help another.(none
family). Same applies to guys.
committed to a man for many reasons other than love. And that's fine, as
love can grow. But you should be aware of the reasons. It'll take time,
circumstances and insight for you to really get to know the person.....continues
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